I have a lady who comes into to of my classes she's there to help the students with IEP's but she mainly tries to tell me how to discipline my class. I'm one of those people who doesn't require my students to sit there like robots and say nothing, write down everything I say, and raise their hand everytime they want to say something. I like a little bit of liberty with my students I don't want them running around like 3rd graders during recess but, I want the to feel free to dicuss and be themselves. She is very old school and she don't miss a chance to "help" me. How do you tell someone in a nice way to, let up back up and see if my way will work. I hate to just tell her right out because I have her everyday and our relationship could effect the students. Right now I just deal with it per class.